Goal Setting Kids

Ash asked:


Last week my boyfriend moved to Georgia to see his kids and work to get him his own place (we were living with my parents) He wants me to move up there but the problem is that i’m 16 and he is 21 and my mother isn’t going for it, i am not going to drop out or get pregnant i have set goals for myself and want to make my dreams come true. I don’t want to leave my mother and sister because it would hurt them but i’m in love ( we have been together 3 years) and don’t want to live the rest of my life wondering what it would have been is i would have moved in with him, you know? What should I do really…

Donte

miesh asked:


We’ve been together 4 yrs and hes wanted a child for 2 yrs. I’ve been putting it off saying we’re not ready…which we’re not. I’m 22 and hes 26. His reasonning is that he wants a kid before he gets old so he can be a young dad. Its not that I don’t want kids at all its just we’re not ready at all and I’m not prepared for it. He doesn’t see it like that and we keep arguing about it A LOT! Its either his way or the highway, and hes said those words to me. I don’t think its fair, him not understanding my side. I’m just saying wait a couple years and thats insane for him. I’ve set goals and each one he gets around somehow (hes a salesman) I just never had to deal with a guy who wanted a kid more than a woman. Hes making me feel completely frustrated, angry, uncomfortable and just ABOUT fed up. help me

Ella