My bf wants babies and I don’t, what should I do?
December 4th, 2008
miesh asked:
We’ve been together 4 yrs and hes wanted a child for 2 yrs. I’ve been putting it off saying we’re not ready…which we’re not. I’m 22 and hes 26. His reasonning is that he wants a kid before he gets old so he can be a young dad. Its not that I don’t want kids at all its just we’re not ready at all and I’m not prepared for it. He doesn’t see it like that and we keep arguing about it A LOT! Its either his way or the highway, and hes said those words to me. I don’t think its fair, him not understanding my side. I’m just saying wait a couple years and thats insane for him. I’ve set goals and each one he gets around somehow (hes a salesman) I just never had to deal with a guy who wanted a kid more than a woman. Hes making me feel completely frustrated, angry, uncomfortable and just ABOUT fed up. help me
Ella
We’ve been together 4 yrs and hes wanted a child for 2 yrs. I’ve been putting it off saying we’re not ready…which we’re not. I’m 22 and hes 26. His reasonning is that he wants a kid before he gets old so he can be a young dad. Its not that I don’t want kids at all its just we’re not ready at all and I’m not prepared for it. He doesn’t see it like that and we keep arguing about it A LOT! Its either his way or the highway, and hes said those words to me. I don’t think its fair, him not understanding my side. I’m just saying wait a couple years and thats insane for him. I’ve set goals and each one he gets around somehow (hes a salesman) I just never had to deal with a guy who wanted a kid more than a woman. Hes making me feel completely frustrated, angry, uncomfortable and just ABOUT fed up. help me
Ella
